3-year-olds love to play, are busy exploring the world, and are quite active. Which make them a fun group to buy gifts for! In this post you’ll find some great gift ideas for 3-year-old boys.
Children in this age group enjoy pretend play. Anything that can help engage this natural inclination is a win. Plus, 3-year-olds are often preparing for pre-school, so toys that have an educational component can be great too (the focus should mainly still be on fun)!
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Gift Ideas for 3-Year-Old Boys
Legos are classic for a reason, and their counterpart of younger kids, Duplos, are awesome in their own right. Plus, these Heroes figurines are super cool.
These rainbow stackers are a well-made toy that are great for imaginative play and creativity. Plus, they’re nice to look at in the family room!
The Stomp Rocket is so much fun for kids of all ages. It is easy to operate, even for young kids. And the rocket launches surprisingly high! The glow-in-the-dark feature is just icing on the cake. All my kids (and the neighbors) love this toy!
Grimm’s makes gorgeous, heirloom-quality wooden toys. This collection of colorful building blocks (and all of Grimm’s toys, really) will stand the test of time over their plastic counterparts.
Playskool Heroes makes a great collection of action figures appropriate for young kids. They’re easy to manipulate, solidly built, and perfect for budding imaginations.
This is a nice gift idea for families who favor a Montessori-type of environment. The subtle colors on the stones, interesting design, and un-flashy nature of the toy will appeal to many people.
These cozy slippers will be a hit for the little Spiderman fan in your life.
The Batmobile was one of the biggest hits at our house this Christmas. It’s surprisingly well-built, and opens and closes with satisfying fluidity. Plus it launches tiny projectiles, which your 3-year-old will love to aim at your ankles.
The Starshine Watchdog gets an average 5-star rating, with parents raving about the toy’s ability to help out at bedtime. If your child struggles with the dark, this is the perfect gift idea.
Kids will love moving their vehicles through this satisfying race course. What at first looks like a pretty basic toy is actually a surprisingly well-designed and clever game for kids.
This realistic dinosaur set gets an impressive 3,000+ 5-star ratings on Amazon. The figures are detailed and large – small dinosaur fans will be delighted.
Leapfrog makes a wide array of popular toys for for kids, and the Scoop and Learn Ice Cream Cart is no exception. Kids love to make multi-scoop ice cream sundaes to serve to their friends. This is a cute and interactive toy, and a big hit in my house.
The Fire tablet has a solid feel in this blue, kid-proof case.
The Playskool Sit ‘n Spin is a long-time favorite for kids, who for unclear reasons really like to be dizzy.
Sensory tables are an awesome gift, and 3-year-olds are the perfect age for them – they enjoy the activities you can do with the tables, and unlike their 3-year-old counterparts, they aren’t inclined to dump the contents all over the floor.
Connect 4 is a really good family board game, and this giant version takes it to the next level. This is a perfect gift for use at backyard parties.
Climbing structures not only help kids get out energy and build strength, but they can also be used as a fort (or whatever else your child can dream up).
With the large size of the pieces, Melissa and Doug puzzles are easy for younger kids to manipulate. They can be laid out on the floor, and they provide a lot of entertainment, just like the smaller-pieced puzzles made for big kids (and adults).
Young kids get a kick out of Pop Up Pirate, and it’s easy to see why. When the pirate finally bursts out of his barrel it is a lot of fun for the preschool set.
This is another bedtime option for young kids who are afraid of the dark. It combines the coziness of a stuffed animal with the features of a nightlight, to make for a helpful “friend” for your child to cuddle with in bed.
For young coding fans, the Kinderbot Robot is an awesome toy. I included it on the list for 3-year-olds not because they will understand the nuances of coding (they won’t) but because they will still have fun with the toy, albeit in a less sophisticated way. This is a toy that your child can grow with, at least through their preschool career.
We have Radio Flyer scooters for both of our youngest kids. I’m happy with this scooter because it’s solid, not intimidating for a small child, and easy to balance on. Plus, it still gives 3-year-olds the real experience of riding a scooter like a big kid.
Walkie-talkies are such a great gift. They are fun to use in the house, and as your child gets older they’re fun to use with their friends around the neighborhood!
Having a realistic toy kitchen is an ideal gift for preschoolers, boys and girls alike. Young children enjoy playing in a way that mimics real life, and by using the kitchen set they can emulate what they see the grown-ups doing around them. This is how kids both learn and play.
I hope these gift ideas for 3-year-old boys were helpful!
The Importance of Play for Young Kids
Leading researcher Roberta Golinkoff explains that children learn through both free play and guided play. (Free play is entirely child directed and guided play involves some scaffolding and direction on the part of adults).
Over the past 20 years, kids have lost an estimated 8 hours of free playtime per week.
This move away from play in early childhood is worrying to many educators who recognize the significant social, emotional, and cognitive benefits that children derive from play.
For detailed information on the body of research between play and learning in early childhood, you can read more here.
Follow your child’s preferences and instincts for play. My strong recommendation is that you encourage your child to follow their interests and help them discover a sense of themselves by promoting free play. This is not gender specific.
How much is too much?
As much as we want our children to have a variety of toys to play with, we can easily reach a tipping point of too much.
Having too many toys doesn’t benefit you, your home, or your child. In fact, having excess clutter is a cause of the distractibility and inability to focus we see so often in young kids!
For kids to have a rich, immersive experience in play, a level of sustained focus is needed. Having too many choices reduces a child’s ability to focus deeply, which works against their ability to play alone.
When choosing toys for your child, consider the following:
Strive for a mix of high quality toys, rather than lots of low quality items.
Higher quality toys will likely cost a bit more, but this should be counterbalanced by the fact that you will own less stuff overall.
For every new toy that comes into your home (particularly around the holidays, birthdays, etc.) consider donating a toy to charity.
Another simple option is to sell toys on FB Marketplace, or various FB groups. There are always lots of people looking for second hand toys!
If family and friends are asking for gift ideas, you can always suggest activities vs. items!
Children’s museums, playspaces, movie nights, etc. These are all “experience” gifts that you can consider in place of a traditional toy!
Toy storage is a must.
We love the IKEA Trofast Storage system (shown below)! The bins can be rotated in and out, and it’s very easy to organize your things.
Consider rotating toys in and out of the playroom, or your child’s room.
Having bins that can be put away and taken back out has the effect of not overwhelming your child, and of giving the hidden toys a “second life” when they come back into rotation.
Where can I find second hand toys?
Toys can be expensive! But sometimes second hand toys work just as well.
If you’re planning to get second hand toys, just be sure everything is safe (no broken pieces that impact the safety of the toy) and clean before your child uses it.
FB Marketplace is a great resource for second hand toys. You can search for what you’re looking for (i.e. dollhouse) and find people in your area looking to sell the item cheaply (or sometimes giving it away for free).
Thrift Stores and local consignment shops often have great deals on used toys.
Yard sales are a great option for second hand toys. If you’re looking at baby products in particular, make sure you’re not picking up items that have been recalled.
Is there a way to check for recalls?
Safe Kids Worldwide provides a comprehensive list of monthly child-related recalls collected from the major federal agencies. You can even sign up to receive recalls by email. Check out their Product Recalls page.
Can I buy toys designated for a different age group?
Sometimes. You want to make sure that you’re not getting a toy that is too developmentally complex for your child, which will frustrate them.
Always make sure that the toy is safe for your child. You wouldn’t, for example, want to let a 2 year old play Marble Run, due to the serious choking hazard of marbles.
How can I ensure toys aren’t toxic?
This can be tricky. When buying new toys, here are some things you want to try to avoid:
- Bisphenol A
Plastic toys are what we usually think of as being unsafe for kids, but stuffed toys can also be full of synthetics and PVCs as well.
So, how can you play it safe?
Here are a few tips on what to look for when toy shopping:
- Smell the toy! A strong smell can indicate a concern about the materials being used.
- Wooden and organic products are a good way to go to avoid toxic chemicals
For more detailed information on how to choose kid-safe toys, NYMetroParents has a good post on the subject.
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