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Life as We Knew It

Published September 7, 2019. Last updated November 20, 2019 by Liz. This post may contain affiliate links.

I have an uneasy feeling in my stomach.

Maybe it’s sadness. I think it’s sadness, and wistfulness, and, vaguely, alarm.

I’m going to write about what I saw while I was driving around my hometown today.

What I saw was – quite notably – nothing.

While I was trying to get my baby to fall asleep, I just spent over 45 minutes in my car, driving around neighborhood after neighborhood – neighborhoods that I grew up in and around; neighborhoods that I know are home to many, many families with young kids.

Neighborhoods that, on a summer day in the 80s, would have been teeming with life. Buzzing with undirected activity.

But I saw no kids, whatsoever, playing outside.

I did see one lone boy on a bicycle.

This was in close to an hour, entirely in residential neighborhoods.

It’s the middle of the day; it’s sunny and comfortable out here. 68 degrees right now. It’s a Saturday. Nobody is in school.

Since nobody is on the streets, I assume they are at organized sports, or nestled in their own houses. We had soccer practice this morning. And my kids spent time nestled too. I get it.

But at some point, I would hope, there would be some life on the street. A group of kids hanging out on a porch. Chalk on a sidewalk. Someone with hockey sticks outs. Anything resembling a childhood that feels free.

I saw lots and lots of basketball hoops on my drive. I saw tons of swingsets. I saw a table full of children’s toys, with a “Free” sign, sitting on a folding table outside a house.

But I did not see one kid playing, anywhere.

Not a single game of tag, or ball. No laughing. No kids that needed to move out of the street to let my car pass by.

I would have liked to have had to slow down to let some kids get out of the way.

As I drive around, my kids’ lullaby CD is playing an instrumental song. It sounds mournful to me, in this context of nothingness. It sounds like a eulogy to a childhood that has passed.

Like a eulogy to the way I grew up.

I know somewhere kids must be playing.

But not here, not today.

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